3/30/2006

Jagging Off, Porn, and Relationships

I got into a very interesting discussion with an associate of mine in regards to being in a relationship, watching porn and jagging off.
Let me start by saying that I am a firm believer in jagging off and watching porn by yourself, especially if you're horny and the other half is no where around. After all, it beats cheating right?

Well I was told that I was cheating on my other half by watching porn and jagging off by myself.

I wanted to know where they came to that conclusion. I mean, which is better when you're in a relationship and can't get to your other half (or they don't want to have sex)....watching porn and satisfying yourself, or going outside of the relationship for two seconds of pleasure and potentially killing the relationship? (Some people would have a three-way with their other half involved, but I digress....and would NOT do that with my other half.)

I choose self-gratification any day.

Anybody else agree or disagree with me? Let me know; leave a comment!

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry but I disagree with you on that, technically it's not cheating bust while you are doing it you could be thing thoughts about the actors on the tape, and or others....

Randy said...

You know we don't tend to agree on many things, but I do agree with you on this. It is far better than going out and finding another way to scratch that itch. Hope you are doing well.

R

Ladynay said...

I agree w/u if you can't be with your partner, be with yourself!

Amy said...

I totally agree with you. You know that you can't catch anything from yourself that you could give your partner. I would much rather keep it safe that way then to give someone I cared about something they don't deserve. Keep jagging and don't feel bad at all. Lots of love keep your chin up.

TheOneandOnlyInsanely said...

In my last relationship, this became an issue, only because the women on the porn didn't resemble me in any shape, fashion or form. They were asians and at this particular time, my ex was carpoooling with an asian chic, which I knew he wanted to fuck.

So for him to come home with an asian porn and hide it, when we usually jag off together, put a damper in our relationship. It wasn't the jaggin it was the not being real, I have no tolerance for bullshit...

But I agree jaggin off beats cheating, and I feel if you have latent desires let me know so I can help you achieve it, as long as, you're willing to do the same for me.

Chosen Brotha said...

I think there's no problem with jaggin off while dating someone. I know some people have different sex drives that others. My ex's drive wasn't as high as mine was so I would J/O then make these ridicuolous noises and faces just to urk him and make him wish he was doing these things to me....it def. beats cheating...keep on jaggin!

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