I have effectively destroyed two relationships.
About two weeks ago, two of Chris' friends that are a couple began flirting with me, individually. Neither knew what the other was doing. Messages were exchanged, and it got to a point whereas we started having very hot discussions. At NO time was there any physical contact; it was all verbal and via text - a "fantasy world" if you will.
Then I heard yesterday's church sermon. Pastor Moss spoke on relationships. He spoke on how individuals do not have to lie to be in a relationship, and then it hit me: I was one of those individuals that was living a big lie by not being more upfront and honest with Chris.
So what did I do?
I called both persons individually and told them that what we were doing had to stop. Neither took it very well (and one half of the couple even went as far as suggesting that they (the couple) keep to themselves while on the cruise (and as such I moved them down one deck), and that after the cruise I disappear).
Then I told Chris. Needless to say he's hurting very much, and I quite possibly have effectively ended our relationship by telling him the truth.
So what do I do?
You Can't Escape Time
1 year ago