Folks, I need your help here.
I have an associate (I won't be naming names here) that is really liking an individual and the individual is liking him. They hang out together, watch movies together, have a good time.
Only one problem: my associate is a top and the person he likes is a top, although he (the person my associate likes) has admitted that he's bottomed every so often, although it's not his thing. My associate doesn't like to be on the bottom either.
He disclosed to me yesterday that on instant messenger he asked the guy what he would do if he never bottomed for him. The guys reply was "well i'd tell u if u don't that's fine. I like i care about u, but ima get it from somewhere else. If we r really serious with each other at the time u woulda given up some ass already...it would be stupid 4 me 2 get with someone that wasn't willin to cater to my needs...for now i'm good on the ass thing, we still getting to know each other."
That was yesterday. Today my associate tells me that he says that "sex is secondary to me. i wouldn't cheat, that's not who i am...i was in a relationship like that. me and dude were in love, months had gone by he got ass from me but he didn't give it. but we definitely came to a compromise...he suggested a 3some every so often but he gave me some ass."
Knowing that my associate will probably not give up the booty, what should he do? Count his losses and walk away? Stay in it with the hopes that this guy can change?
Please, leave a comment, I'd appreciate it.
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